Posted in Comfort & Control, Depression, Friendship, Living In Community, Soundrack on Apr 18th, 2012 1 Comment »
The other day a friend called me. She was struggling to see light at the end of her tunnel of despair, and I hope I was able to encourage her. We talked as I sat in my car in the Grocery Outlet parking lot because this is the reality of life in community: to go [...]
Posted in Comfort & Control on Mar 13th, 2012 No Comments »
It’s snowing on my bad attitude. Today I got up in a foul mood. I’d been awake since 3am, the kids weren’t getting out of bed in time to eat a decent breakfast, the internet was down, and it was snowing. This meant that even though I was exhausted by 7am, I couldn’t stay home [...]
Posted in Comfort & Control, Rage Against The Pile on Feb 24th, 2012 No Comments »
A few months ago I bought a Groupon for two nights at the Earthbox Motel on San Juan Island. The islands are a favorite summer destination for us so I’m excited to visit in the off season. Earthbox boasts the only indoor pool on the island, which is really what sold me on it since [...]
Posted in Comfort & Control, Fun Pile on Jan 24th, 2012 No Comments »
It snowed last week. I lived in Minnesota for 18 years – a place where your nostrils stick together if you breathe too deeply, and your eyeballs freeze if you’re outside too long – so I’m not one of the crazies who gets all excited about the snow. But about once or twice a year [...]
Posted in Comfort & Control on Nov 14th, 2011 No Comments »
On Sunday last week I started wearing contacts again for the first time in two years. On Monday, Ruthie poked me in the eye and my contact disappeared. Into thin air. Gone. Usually when my hard gas permeable contact lens pops out, I hear a little tick as it hits the floor. Or it lands [...]
Posted in Comfort & Control, Thomas on Nov 11th, 2011 2 Comments »
I feel overwhelmed this week. Weighty things are on my heart, and a busy schedule intensifies the emotional stress. In addition, several friends are in the midst of weighty circumstances as well. My first reaction is to want to do something – about their circumstances and my own – but there is often nothing I [...]
Posted in Comfort & Control on Nov 6th, 2011 1 Comment »
When I lose my temper and yell at the kids, I take the short view. I just want them to shut up, or sit the fuck down, or put on their jacket, or quit antagonizing each other. When I eat poorly to satisfy a craving, I take the short view. A bowl of cereal will [...]
Posted in Comfort & Control, Introspect on Oct 24th, 2011 1 Comment »
“Before long, the king made himself at home and God gave him peace from all his enemies” (2 Samuel 7:1, The Message). This is the verse that stared back at me this morning when I opened my Bible after a long hiatus of being “too busy” to read the Bible. The king referred to here [...]
Posted in Comfort & Control, Everyday, On Writing, Startup Mom on Aug 19th, 2011 2 Comments »
Lately I’ve been experiencing a creative conundrum. You see, I have it made. I’m one of the lucky ones. And no, I’m not talking about my hair. It’s amazing, to be sure, and the world is generally very jealous of my thick and gorgeous mane, but I am talking about my lifestyle. It’s amazing that [...]
Posted in Comfort & Control on Jun 14th, 2011 1 Comment »
You know what I do a lot? I do a lot of yelling. Like today, for instance. I gave the kids a list of chores to do, after which they were to get screen time and a trip to the farmer’s market. Did they do their chores? Of course not. They screwed around in their [...]
Posted in Comfort & Control, Seen, Heard, Said on Jun 10th, 2011 No Comments »
No, son, the F-word actually won’t make your life better : Conversion Diary. I would not have chosen this particular battle with my own kids – I’d much rather they just know the word and eliminate all the mystique. HOWEVER, I fully appreciate the whole Garden of Eden drama thing. My son immediately mistrusted my [...]
Posted in Comfort & Control, Grieving, Living In Community, Soundrack on Jun 8th, 2011 1 Comment »
“Maybe we’re not meant to be together.” “He said he never loved me.” “He told me he wants a divorce.” “I can’t keep letting him treat me that way.” “I don’t see how reconciliation is possible.” “It’s the hardest thing I’ve ever done.” “I can’t stop crying.” These are soundbites from some of the conversations [...]
Posted in Books, Comfort & Control, Seen, Heard, Said on Jun 3rd, 2011 1 Comment »
The Danger of Moralistic Parenting | The Resurgence. I loved everything about this post, then realized at the very end that it’s an excerpt from a book I just ordered on the Kindle. WIN! An excerpt from the post: Certainly the faith that has empowered the persecuted church for two millennia isn’t as thin and [...]
Posted in Comfort & Control, Soundrack on Jun 1st, 2011 No Comments »
pumpkin Every once in awhile I put this song on repeat and turn it up to eleven. I can’t speak to why the song writers feel okay, but it reminds me of the peace I find in Jesus no matter what stresses me out. Lately I’ve been inspired by a friend who’s had to make [...]
Posted in Comfort & Control, Seen, Heard, Said on May 27th, 2011 1 Comment »
What happens when you let your children have it all their own way?. A friend posted this to Facebook and a discussion ensued. It’s an interesting experiment, but I think it spoke to me more about my own bitchyness than it did my kids’ ability to govern themselves. After all, it’s our job to shepherd [...]
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