What happens when you let your children have it all their own way?.
A friend posted this to Facebook and a discussion ensued. It’s an interesting experiment, but I think it spoke to me more about my own bitchyness than it did my kids’ ability to govern themselves. After all, it’s our job to shepherd them in the right direction, but we can’t do that if we let them do whatever they want.
I’ve seen first hand the logical conclusion of that lifestyle.
But I think this mom had the same realization I would have had – that I say NO a lot simply because I’m lazy or inconvenienced by my kids’ request. I can’t say YES all the time, but I know I could say it more. Here’s an excerpt:
Experiment nearly over and I feel I have proved a point â€” one that is very interesting to all of us.
For a start, by the end of the week the children are imploding. My acquiescence to everything has meant that they are not only buzzing with e-numbers and sugar, but are exhausted, too
But I have also learned some important lessons. The hassle of clearing up the kitchen after they have made a cake is nothing compared to the joy I feel when I hear them laughing so freely.
They just wanted to have fun, to laugh more; to not have every request quashed by a negative.
They also, I think, really started to understand why I create boundaries in their lives, because as much as they donâ€™t like them, they are lost without them.