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Momageddon: Jerks In Their Own Right. – The Pile I'm Standing In
Momageddon: Jerks In Their Own Right.

Momageddon: Jerks In Their Own Right.

Snow ball in the face

It snowed in the Seattle area last week, which made me a little nostalgic so I went back into my snowy photo archives. I found this photo of Thomas, just after Ruthie hit him with a snow clump.

He was 21 months old, Ruthie was 3 1/2.

It’s funny to remember them at this age, because even back then Ruthie went out of her way to push his buttons, and even back then Thomas was quick to retaliate.

This same scenario plays out a thousand times in our home – Ruthie’s sin of provoking, Thomas’ sin of executing his own justice. It happens so often that I get lazy and just start barking at them to leave each other alone.

I tend to take my kids’ flaws personally, as if I somehow caused them to be this way or otherwise failed as a parent. In my rational mind I know this isn’t true, but emotionally I carry the weight of their sin on my own shoulders.

When I remind myself this is just how they are because we all sin, I’m able to slow down and shepherd them through repentance.

But all those other times? The yelling.

3 thoughts on “Momageddon: Jerks In Their Own Right.

  1. Are you sure you aren’t in my head??? Cause that’s pretty mch my house the past few weeks. There’s been a whole lot of “I love you guys, but I don’t much LIKE you right now – your behaviour stinks!!!”

  2. That is so true! I hadn’t thought about it but I totally take Isabelle’s sinful behavior personally as if it is all my fault she is not perfect. Why do we do that? I am going to remember this when she starts having a melt down at the airport this weekend.

  3. Jenn: Ha! I think it’s a fairly universal phenomenon, particularly during snow storms. 🙂

    Melanie: Plan for the worst, hope for the best. 🙂

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