Linford Detweiler and Karin Bergquist of the band Over the Rhine canceled their national tour for the OHIO album a couple years ago because the stress of their work was taking a toll on their marriage. They stated in the liner notes of their most recent album, Drunkard’s Prayer, that they needed time to figure out if being together was something they were still committed to.
“When we came home from the tour,” they wrote, “we bought two cases of wine and decided we were going to put a bottle on the kitchen table every evening and start talking until nothing was left. The idea was not to get plowed, but to talk face to face deep into the night.”
Out of that experience came the song, Born, plus a whole host of other beautiful melodies on Drunkard’s Prayer.
Two kids, depression, his career, and pastoring a church on the side has taken a toll on us. We are broken, and I feel as if nothing can fix us.
Religion says God will fix us, but the Bible says I am arrogant and stubborn and must let go of my anger.
Religion says God will make me feel better, but the Bible says I need to humble myself and ask Bryan to forgive me.
Religion says I deserve to be happy, but the Bible says we are children of grace who have been given a new voice to praise the Most High God.
I am nobody. I am a lump of clay who shakes her fist at the potter.
I’m tired. I give up. I will let go of my resolve and listen for the Still Voice to whisper again to me – I hope I can remember what He sounds like.