Read a great post over at The Vox Pop’s Reforming the Feminine blog called Agenda Wendy. Here is an excerpt:
Agenda Wendy has a plan. Something occurred to her that would be a really good thing to do. Thereâ€™s nothing wrong with that. But then woe to the obstacle that gets in Agenda Wendyâ€™s way. Agenda Wendy becomes singularly focused on her agenda and either runs over or resents anyone who gets in her way. Agenda Wendy doesnâ€™t appreciate interruptions.
Hello, my name is A-Jen-da. And you, Agenda Wendy, have most succinctly described who I am and why my husband drinks heavily.
This was a timely post, as I’m thinking of my issues of comfort and control as I look at 2008 and how to best establish measurable goals for change. I appreciated her three points of what she is learning, and need to consider these for myself.
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Glad to know I’m not alone in this struggle. This issue has been central to most of the conflicts in our marriage.